JB's Deep Thoughts...

Ok, maybe they are not so deep but they are mine.

Friday, February 16, 2007

They come and they go.....

I sometimes wonder why certain people come into my life at the exact time that I need them... Is this what they call fate? Or divine intervention? Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining. I actually wish that there would be more of this so called "divine intervention" in my life. Whatever it is, I wish that there was a way that was just as easy to remove people from my life. Why is it always so hard to leave a relationship (of any kind, romantic, friendship, god forbid a family member)? Sometimes I just want to move on... And I'm not talking about only "bad" relationships, some don't turn sour, they just go stale. I should be able to walk away from these without explanation, right? You would think it would be easy, but it's not. You run into someone on the street that you haven't seen for years and they say "hey, how is ol' so and so doing?" I want to say "who fucking cares?" but instead I make up some lame story about why I am not in touch with this person which usually consists of "we are both just really busy". How humiliating. Not to mention the dreaded "failed romantic relationship." This is when you just want to pack up and try out a foreign country.

3 Comments:

At February 16, 2007 at 8:51 PM , Blogger jbarr said...

JB. Please do not move to a different country because you need to realize that there are many people that love and need you here; especially me because you are a great friend and I need you (I know that is selfish on my part). When other as you about so and so, just respond that you have lost contact and ask them if they have heard anything. In any case, keep your chin up because things aways change and normally they are for the better.

Your Friend,
Joe

 
At February 17, 2007 at 2:57 AM , Blogger em said...

Don't leave the country unless you take me! I would hate it here without you. I AM so proud of you honey!

 
At February 20, 2007 at 7:29 PM , Blogger JennyWren said...

You had to join mine, I had to join yours...It's like exchanging vows, so NOW your stuck with me. Contract is on it's way, let me know if your people need to talk to my people before you sign. I don't think the country thing is such a bad idea, at least for a while until you start to get the language down. For a while you can just say, "who the fuck cares" when they ask you one of those questions and you can blame it on a language barrier. By the time they are on to you, you will be sick of most of them and forgot why it even mattered to get away from it all in the first place. Hmm, maybe it's just easier to stay here and blog about it.

 

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